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Thursday, November 24, 2011

Thanksgiving


I tend to associate Thanksgiving with being home with my family in California. My brother, sister, cousins, aunts, uncles and other assorted family friends gathered at my mom's house for a ridiculous feast. We usually have traditional American Thanksgiving food (turkey, ham, sweet potatoes, etc.) but it's mixed together with Chinese food like sticky rice instead of stuffing, bok choy or Chinese broccoli instead of green beans. The food is lined up along the kitchen counter buffet style and everyone steps up to get their first serving. Then their second. Sometimes even a third. It's delicious and comforting.

We haven't had Thanksgiving at my mom's in a long time. The plan was to go this year but we decided to move our trip a month earlier since I was less than enthusiastic about traveling over the holiday weekend - the busiest travel time of the year. Instead, we drove down to New Jersey to spend the holiday with Ed's parents and grandmother. I am thankful for having family nearby. Instead of the Chinese-American Thanksgiving dinner, we will have a Polish-American Thanksgiving dinner.

I've still been thinking a lot about gratitude. I am trying to be more present in order to be more centered. Rather than thinking about all the things that I should be doing or the challenges I may be facing or other things that I'm not happy about, I'm trying to just focus on the crazy, silly, cute things that my sons are doing right now. Focusing on the smiles on my sons' faces when we pull into their grandparents' driveway. It's a work in progress. Here's an interesting piece on cultivating gratitude both in our children and in ourselves.

Happy Thanksgiving! I hope that everyone has a wonderful day with their family and friends.

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3 Comments:

At November 27, 2011 at 2:11 PM , Blogger Surfing Grandma of OC said...

OK I have to comment on this post too. I laughed out loud. I am married to a hispanic, spanish, blackfoot indian, and mixed with other stuff guy. My first Thanksgiving with him and his family, they had Turkey, red rice(sopa) and beans and tortillas, and potato salad. NOT ONE VEGETABLE, not to mention that there was no stuffing, cranberries.. what????. I just laughed and said ok this is a different take on Thanksgiving..but now since I have been in the family over 16 years..I have helped them with what a traditional Turkey Day is..and now they eat vegetables and are a lot healthier too! ;-)

 
At November 27, 2011 at 8:16 PM , Blogger Christine said...

Sometimes I feel like it's not a real Thanksgiving dinner without all the other random assortment of dishes!!! Sounds like you all share a yummy feast - veggies are always a good thing, right?

 
At November 29, 2011 at 9:28 PM , Blogger Rad Surfing Mom and Urban Homesteader said...

Beautiful post and I like how you talked about being focused on your family. That is so important, because it always seems like the world is trying to get your intention away from your family. Staying family focused reaps the greatest rewards every time! Our Thanksgiving was at home with me cooking all day and watching the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade, followed by the Purina Dog Show, and then the movie Miracle on 34 Street!

 

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